As I have matured, I have begun to realize that personal achievement can only truly be gratifying if shared with someone special. There are a precious few people in my life who I am compelled to share all things of consequence. Pops (aka Dad) is one such person. Throughout my youth, he has fostered my growth and espoused wisdom, which I did not appreciate until I became an adult. He always made time to take part in significant happenings in my life (ie HS and College graduation, Navy milestones, etc.) Clearly, I'm sure he knew that I wanted nothing more than to make him proud.
So, he again has come to witness another life event. Promotion to the rank of 1st Dan. Often I wondered, if there will be a time when I could afford him the same loyalty, understanding, wisdom and strength. How can I manifest such a vision?
A prophecy indeed.
Alfred,
I think you have learned what is truly one of life's most important lessons. Which succiently can be summarized by saying: How do you define happiness and/or success? Most of us think it involves a set amount of money or a set purchase or a promotion we get. I have come to realize it is having someone to share life's most precious and not so precious moments with. In other words, it is having a system of support that propels and sustains you no matter what is going on in life. I'm reminded of a quote I keep true and dear to my heart: Life is not about the breaths you take but about the memories that take your breath away. With that said, I would say you have graduated to 1st Dan but not for the physical lesson you have learned but the mental one. Anyway, congrats!
K:
Well said and much appreciated. I have enjoyed the journey, albeit an exhaustive one. I've been told it's just the beginning.
Alfred: Your statement is so very true. Too many times in life, we keep waiting for something big to happen. To purchase a house or buy a new car or land that new promotion.
However, these things don't define who we are or what we have truly become. It is those we love and who love us that makes the soul complete. I'm glad that you have found such inner peace and love in your family for family is so very important.
Maybe soon, you will also find that inner love and peace in that special woman. I know she's out there waiting for you to find her.
Ammie
A:
Yes, there must be a woman, with whom I can share the best and worst life events. I'm sure it's only a matter of time.